This is one in a series of weird things whichIthought was motherboard related (I RMA'd the motherboard), the RAM tests fine with memtest86 and I used badblocks on both RAID 1 members with no errors and smartctl is happy with them.
Basically the array crashes the kernel a lot and has issues when writing.
[112322.723465] md0: rw=0, want=14958668696, limit=1887460480
[112322.731077] attempt to access beyond end of device
[112322.731087] md........