These errors are usually caused by the lack mysql client dev files
If using mariadb install this:
apt-get install libmariadbclient-dev
If using mysql install this:
apt-get install libmysqlclient-dev........
Assign way more replicas than you have of memory on all nodes and watch the Swarm crash which can easily reproduce in a small VMfor testing.
root@Deb11Docker01:~# docker ps
CONTAINER ID IMAGE COMMAND CREATED STATUS PORTS NAM........