#!/bin/bash
sshcommand="ssh -N -R 20000:localhost:22 user@8.8.8.8"
result=`ps aux|grep $sshcommand"|grep -v grep`
if [ -z "$result" ]; then
echo "we are going to connect"
$sshcommand
else
echo "we are already connected"
fi
This is a handy script you can use and then add it to cron.
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