This is really something the SSHServer developers should consider. The cause of this annoyance is because of failed DNS lookups on your IPaddress, which is especially common for many dedicated/col-located servers and also computers on internal NAT/private networks.
The chances are this is the cause of your SSHSlow/Delayed Login problems.
The easy solution to SSH Login Problems
Edit /etc/ssh/sshd_config
Add this line to disable r........